How often are you stuck with a decision to make?
Do you bounce between 2 options driving yourself crazy?
Maybe your default is to leave decisions to the last minute which either leads you to missing opportunities or letting people down?
Both of which hurt you most. The difference between the truly exceptional and the merely good is that the great say no to almost everything.
If the best say no, why don’t the rest of us?
The reason we don’t say no is that we are terrified it’s going to wreck things. And there are 3 things we typically do instead of offering positive and timely no’s.
I’m going to discuss these in detail and then offer you a strategy to teach you how to set your boundaries for a happy 2021.
With all that’s going on right now that is affecting each and everyone of us, how are you taking care of yourself?
Do you have a plan and schedule that you follow?
Do you know what practices help you most?
Or are you just freewheeling not knowing what to do with yourself and at the mercy of news feeds and convenience food before numbing yourself out on binge TV?
We’re so busy choosing sides and placing blame on others that we forget to take care of ourselves first. In order to help others (which I know many of you want to do), we have to remember that taking care of ourselves, both physically and mentally, is essential.
Ruining our mental and physical health doesn’t help anyone.
Being strong and leading by example is what can truly help others.
So today I’m going to share with you my top 8 self care practices that I do daily.
But specifically I’m going to tell you how they make me feel and why I make them a part of my day… to give you some...
This time of year for me is painful. I love Christmas, and it’s also a hard reminder for me of the people I’ve lost in my life - particular my parents.
I’ve come to learn to balance the love and grief and that’s what I want to share with you today. My story of how to gently open your perspective if you’ve had loss in your life to help you.
In particular 3 shifts you can make to be able to hold the pain and joy of grief.
How often do you catch yourself in a spiral of negative thoughts?
So how often are those thoughts going without you even being aware?
I don’t know about you, but my mind can switch rapidly from positive inspiring thoughts into uninspiring and negative ones.
Today is part 2, and so I’m going to discuss what to do with the remaining 20% of awareness to get a more unbiased and accurate perspective.
You’re going to be able to shift your mindset toward a little more truth, more positivity, belief in yourself and one of happiness and success.
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In some area of your life, you are leading the way whether you're a parent, partner, coach, manager or yourself.
Leaders therefore are the ones that see opportunity for change before anyone else. We are the visionary, and we have the passion to help others see the new way.
Yet being a leader is often a thankless process isn’t it. The people we are aiming to guide are often a few steps back on the process of change. And change is uncomfortable, and we all resist it in some form or another.
This is why the path of a leader so very lonely. When we try and pull people to us, we are the ones creating resistance.
No matter how great or innovative our ideas are, it’s not the real driver to transformation.
We can be thinking about change for a long time, preparing etc… and then set the date in the calendar. But the reality is that you’re much further round the cycle than the rest of the people you’re with.
Understanding where people are in the cycle of change...
Over the past couple of years, there’s been a real recognition that you can’t do anything well if you don’t take care of yourself first.
So, why do people still talk about self care and selfish as if they go hand in hand? Is self care selfish?
The idea might be tied to the guilt people tend to attach to caring for themselves first. Those who look to care for themselves first to help those close to them later are often labeled as selfish, with almost everyone forgetting that to do the latter, you always have to excel at the first.
Let’s dive deeper into the concept of self care and selfishness, to figure out the truth once and for all.
Do you ever feel like you’re being selfish when you are doing something for yourself?
It might sound too good to be true, but there are so many tools available that can help us discover a deeper appreciation for our lives and the unique things that make us, us.
In our busy age of “Do more and be more,”...
Whether you are a sports fan or not, you cannot deny the gravitas of Mike Tyson’s quote, “Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face!”
All of us can think of at least 5 instances in our life where this metaphor rang true in our personal or professional lives.
What we need is a routine that will get us back on track when the daily chaos (inevitably) hits.
And as our behaviours are directed by our thoughts, today I am going to teach you 6 profound mindset shifts to help you when you’re having a bad day!
Do you actively try and work out why you aren’t where you want to be?
The only reason we are not where we want to be in life is because we are the ones holding ourselves back.
That could be due to a few reasons: Fear of change, fear of failure, fear of what others will think.
If you think about it, we are mirrors for each other, so if you change it inadvertently makes people in your life question themselves.
So many of us end up choosing careers, partners, livelihoods and our passion based on what we think others will think of us. Will we fit in?
Yet there is another layer to this — we trap ourselves in our identities of who we think we are — we stay labelled to our profession, our partners, our hobbies even if they are detrimental to our health and happiness.
There are so many ways in which we allow our identities and other people’s perceptions to make our choices, and you can end up spending a lot of time in your life playing a role that isn’t...
What does it take to be successful in life?
Does it take an enormous amount of talent? Privilege? Or luck?
Certainly those elements play a role in success, no doubt about it. But if you look at truly successful people, or look at any success you’ve had in your life, can you really attribute it primarily to those three things: luck, talent, or privilege?
Or is there something else – something simpler – to achieving the success that you want in your career, business, or life in general?
Today I'm going to discuss 3 strategies to make lasting progress.
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